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Monday, December 12, 2005

Daily Routine

I believe everyone must had encountered some conflict at work or some unpleasant situation that make you feel like quitting your job. Unless you the boss else I guess everyone is facing the same thing. While after numerous years in my organisation, backstabs, quarrels, unfair treatments, unreasonable scolding by superior etc. My worst experience happens just a few days ago when i was offered hostile accusation and vulgarity where I got nothing to do with the cock up. Well, I am not doing to bore with these boring details anyway.

The fact is, you are still working there anyway so why not make your life better. You properly had heard this number of times that life is just like a roller coaster. You can choose to close your eyes be tense and have your blood pressure shot up or you can be like the ang mo who always let go of their hands and scream during the excitement. Backstabs, conflicts happens to everyone what we are dealing here is not the person. Its the wickedness and weakness of humanity that we are talking about here. If we can forgive that person and not hold it against them our life will be better. Just let go and forget about these incident and be happy. Just like the roller coaster. Cheers and no more Monday blues.

Sunday, December 04, 2005

Cross road

Well its been five months since I post a blog. The truth is I am such a lazy guy in maintaining a blog and I am so tied down with my studys. During these many months that I had not been updating here, I had been reading some of the popular blog stars! example XiaXue's site, other famous babes' site as well as my friends. There are impressive I must say, consider the time they put in and the topics that they can think of. In fact, I don't think I can think of that many topics to write.

I had been searching for a long time for a religion. Why?
Because most people have it haha. My first encounter on religion was actually in my secondary school (Manjusri Sec) but being playful at that time I didn't have any serious thought about buddhism as my religion. So maybe I had missed the chance. Then next came christianity, a guy from XXX church approached me when I was around 18. I attended the church service for more than a month and I was given a probation period of 3 weeks (actually its a considering period). Kinda short haha i thought i needed a year. I turned them down after the 3rd weeks, because I still wasn't ready at all. There are just too many doubts at that time.

So after going through several hard times in life I started to feel how disorganised my life is. I started to find out more about other religions by talking to people about the religion that they gave. I had a conversation with a christian before and I understanding that most of the believer female through her. And we started analysing why?
We concluded that most males are mental stronger...(Gals no hard feeling hehe) secondly, guys are more prideful and will post some problem in letting GOD to take over their life (that's include me). The fact is a guys pride sometime can really weigh a 1000 tons.

I am always happy for people who had found what they are looking for and hope they will continue to be a good and faithful follower of whatever they believe.

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Carrying a grude can be terribly difficult work that brings you nothing of value. Forgive, and be forever free of that burden. Reminding offended by works or actions of another can be quite painful and terribly distracting. Forgive, and the pain is suddenly gone for good.
If someone hurts you, if someone wrongs you, do you really want to perpetuate and multiply the damage? Is it really in your best interest to give your time, energy and attention to keeping the pain alive? Forgive, and move on past it. Forgive, and put yourself back in positive control. Forgiveness does not mean that you allow others to take advantage of you. It simply means that you allow yourself to move positively forward, regardless of what others say or do.
Even if the other person doesn't deserve it, you deserve the opportunity to leave the pain behind. Forgive and be free